Opinion on problem with bf?

so my bf is goin through some problems with his life. i try calling him or txting him whats up/ what happened~ i cant drive so i cant really see him~ is it right for him to completely ignore me even though he is going through stuff? i understand he needs time, but i feel like he doesnt care even if i support him and try to help out, he doesnt say anything back...i dont know if he knows this is effects me too, this has been going for almost 2 weeks now...finally he answed,... i just said did i cause anything and i was just wondering~ he said " why would you say that? you make me feel ****** up for making me feel like this...i was like wtf? errr... my friends said he's doin a guilt trip too me. im just lost right now~